If you are looking to introduce a vibrator into your sex life but don’t know where to start don’t fret we have written up a quick guide to getting you started. There are loads of different types and models on vibrator in the market. All with a different purpose in mind. Here is what you should look out for.
Bullet vibrators are the most popular ones on the market. They are small and compact and built with precision in mind. They are usually around 2-3 inches long and can either run on batteries or are rechargeable. If you want direct stimulation to your clitoral area then this is ideal for your needs. It is ideal to be used during sex or masturbation. The small size means it doesn’t get in the way while having penetrative sex.
These are also known as strap on vibrators. You would wear this the same way you would wear a pair of pants. They apply hands free stimulation to your clitoris. Many of this model come with an attachable shaft which can offer external and internal stimulation.
This model is designed to wear on your finger just like a thimble. They give you loads of control and therefore you have the ultimate control over your pleasure. You can either wear them on your finger tip or as a rind and can allow you to enhance your stimulation during penetrative sex without being intrusive or obstructive.
Love eggs are insertable vibrators. They have vibrating motor built inside them and often come with a remote control. These go directly into your vagina and sit perfectly at your G Spot. The remote control comes with plenty of setting so you can control the vibration you feel.
You have probably heard of this particular style of vibrator. These vibrators have an appendage which branches off of the main shaft. This is designed for clitoral stimulation while the shaft is there for penetrative stimulation. Some models include features which alter the direction the shaft moves for a better orgasm.
Have you and your partner been having some conversations about trying out some role play but don’t know where to start? Once you get over the “embarrassment” factor role play can be a great way to spice up your love life so without further ado here are some scenarios you and your partner could act out.
Its a a classic and its a good starting point. Your partner rings you door bell. You great him in your sexy little black night gown and let him in. While he tries to fix whatever household appliance is causing you trouble you lean over the top of him and I’m sure you will know how the rest of this story goes.
It’s all about surprise with this one.
The Call Girl and The Client
This one is a little more daring and you can ramp up the excitement by arranging to meet in a hotel room. One of you is the “professional” while the other is hiring in their services. The best thing about this is you can act out some of the things you might not be willing to discuss in real life. Anything goes except kissing (sound familiar.) Finish the job then head home.
The no kissing rule while drive you both wild.
Either male or female can play the stripper in this scenario (equal right and such.) Start of with a dance and the only rule is no touching. Make it last and don’t just strip down like you are getting ready fro a bath. This one comes with its own embarrassment facto but trust us when it gets going you will be glad you got over it. This is a healthy and natural scenario to act out and I’m sure you have thought about it more than once.
Can you never quite seem to get over the finishing line? Is there just something holding you back a little from reaching your climax. The stories ring true for both men and women a like. Here are some of our top tips and trick to help both you and your partner have better orgasms.
Get on top of him. This will put you in a better position so that you clitoris is rubbing directly against his pubic bone. You could even lie back on a pillow. Raising your pelvis will get the female in a better position to enjoy clitoral stimulation as well as penetrative.
Why not introduce a cock ring or vibrator into you bedroom. There has never been a better time to try something new.
Communicate more wile you are having sex. Studies show that men like to be given “direction.” If you dont want to use verbal communication in the bedroom because it feels a bit awkward let your partner moan but giving out a little moan or by using your hands and arms to reassure them that they are on the right track!
This one you can do on your won. You need to learn to to exercise your orgasmic muscles. You should try to do some Kegels. The best way to do this is next time you go to pee try and stop mid stream. this will work the pelvic floor muscles you use during sex. If you do these every day, more than once you will definitely feel a difference sooner rather than later.
The longer you build up arousal then the better the orgasm you will have. Take things slow and let them build up. When things are about to kick into action take it off the boil and cool down. If you do this a couple of times you will find that your orgasm will be much, much stronger for both of you!